Is it approiate for one to pull up a chair with a groomsman

My boyfriend is a groomsman in his sisters wedding. He is the only one I know at this wedding and I feel weird going. During the reception he will be seated with the bridal party and I have no idea where I will be seated. I am scared and I'm thinking of pulling up a chair next to my man; is that.... [Read more]

Wording invitations for vow renewal held in Hawaii

Ok, I have no idea where to begin on my questions. Here's the deal.

We got married in Hawaii 9 years ago. It was just the two of us. We plan on returning next year to renew our vows on our 10th anniversary. We want to bring all of our family - we're paying for everyone, and yes we know, it's.... [Read more]

Who is Involved with Lighting Unity Candle

The bride has asked me to light the unity candle in plsce of her mother who is attending but does not support the marriage. The bride's mom and dad are divorced so I would be lighting the candle with her father (who is single now). I am married and my husband is fine with me lighting the candle..... [Read more]

Guest attire for Hawaii wedding

I'm in a bit of a quandry. My nephew is getting married in August at the Grand Wailea in Maui (afternoon ceremony) but the reception is being held at a very informal venue somewhere else. What would be appropriate attire for both myself and my husband to attend both functions?.... [Read more]

Lighting of the unity candle with divorced parents

My parents were divorced 18 years ago. My step-mother and my father raised me (and are paying for the wedding), although my mother still had visitation rights and I still see her regularly. I would like to have the lighting of the unity candle as part of my ceremony, but I'm not quite sure how to.... [Read more]